One of our favourite authors is Daniel H. Pink, whose written five best-selling books about the changing world of work. Hearing him speak at the FPA Conference in the US last year also gave us plenty of food for thought.
Here is an insightful post from his website about how making New Year’s non-resolutions work for you:
Man, am I glad it’s a new year. I need a re-boot. And as I contemplated my resolutions for the year ahead, I reached out to Kelly McGonigal for some guidance.
Kelly is a Stanford University lecturer and author of the terrific new book, The Willpower Instinct, that explores the psychology, economics, and neuroscience of self-control and that offers some compelling (and counter-intuitive) advice.
Here’s our short interview:
You say that instead of making a New Year’s resolution, we should instead pledge not to change something in our lives. Why?
Most people make a fundamental mistake when thinking about their future choices. We wrongly but persistently expect to make different decisions tomorrow than we do today.
I’ll skip the gym today, but I’m sure I’ll go tomorrow. I’ll put this on my credit card today, but no more shopping for a month. I don’t want to get started on the project now, but I’ll tackle it first thing in the morning. The more people have faith in their futures selves, the more likely they are to indulge today. In fact, just knowing you’ll have the chance to choose again tomorrow increases the chance you’ll choose habit or vice today.
Behavioural economics provides an interesting solution. When you want to change a behaviour, aim to reduce the variability in your behaviour, not the behaviour itself.
What do you mean by “variability?”
Take, for example, a smoker who wants to quit but can’t. The typical approach is to set a goal to smoke fewer cigarettes – or even quit out right. But imagine instead that the smoker simply tries to smoke the same number of cigarettes every day. Research shows that they will gradually decrease their overall smoking– even when they are explicitly told not to try to smoke less.
Hmmm. How does that work?
They are deprived of the usual cognitive crutch of pretending that tomorrow will be different. Every cigarette becomes not just one more smoked today, but one more smoked tomorrow, and the day after that, and the day after that. For someone who really wants to quit, this is exactly the reality check that makes change possible.
So what do we say to ourselves in the moment of temptation to give ourselves that reality check?
Force yourself to view every individual choice as a commitment to all future choices. So instead of asking, “Do I want to eat this candy bar now?” (while lying to yourself that you won’t eat another candy bar all week), ask yourself, “Do I want the consequences of eating a candy bar every afternoon for the next year?” When tempted to procrastinate, don’t ask yourself “Would I rather do this today or tomorrow?” Instead, ask “Do I want the consequences of always putting this off until tomorrow?”
Okay. So what you are you resolving not to change this year?
Over the years, I’ve made a number of no-change resolutions that have stuck, including exercising every day (instead of taking the consequences of not exercising every day). So I know it works! This year I’m aiming to reduce variability in my sleep. I’ve been an inconsistent sleeper all my life with a lot of temptations to both stay up and sleep in. There’s fascinating research coming out about the physical and mental health benefits of not just getting enough sleep, but keeping a predictable sleep schedule.
When it comes to financial resolutions (or non-resolutions), we encourage you to ask yourself this question right now: “Do I want to feel how I do now, next year?”
Finances can be very stressful and emotive. The consequences of always delaying action by not paying your bond off more aggressively, contributing to your RA, and paying off credit cards as well as continuing to overspend can be great and leave you feeling uncomfortable. If your answer to the above question is ‘no’, that should be your motivation to make (and keep) a financial resolution. If your answer is yes, you can sit back and relax, resolution-free.
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